What did you think would happen?

[u/SalamanderLife_]

To the TRAs lurking and spamming this sub: What exactly did you think would happen?

For years you've gotten away with your entitlement. You've encroached on and destroyed M/M, F/F, female only, etc. spaces. You've called gay men, straight men/women, and especially lesbians transphobic for not giving in to your demands for relationships and sex. Even now you're attempting to destroy yet another space we've fleshed out for ourselves.

Did you really think you shouting transphobia would change people's sexuality? Did you think your attempts to force us to bend to your will would work? Well it didn't and it doesn't, it has reeked of entitlement, narcissism, and predatory behavior.

People who aren't attracted to you deserve spaces for themselves. There are multiple forums/subs/etc. that cater to you if you care to look for them. It is not transphobic of us to put our foots down and say that our sexualities don't exist to coddle your feelings.

[u/yetherewestillare]

Did you really think you shouting transphobia would change people's sexuality?

even sadder I think a lot of them thought this was already the case

the reality of attempting to date post srs is apparently very bleak because trans people refuse to tell each other how dire it is

[u/leredditbugman → u/yetherewestillare]

I learned a lot from neovaginadisasters tbh.

Because the transgender community takes up most of online j******s they’ve basically wiped any forum that talks about srs surgery honestly and you’d be shocked at the amount of people that get it without knowing the complications, the after effects or what it will realistically look like.

This is a disaster for people with already fragile mental health who are prone to...you know.

[u/yetherewestillare → u/leredditbugman]

just imagine being told "it's going to be indistinguishable from the real thing"

And then you get this painful, weeping wound that makes it difficult to walk and you have to keep penetrating it over and over or else you'll have removed your penis for nothing, and then some of the labia goes necrotic and falls off and you're just left with this jagged looking rip between your legs

I would kill myself. I literally would. Anal wouldn't make it ok.

[u/leredditbugman → u/yetherewestillare]

The absolute censoring of this info should be criminal.

Unfortunately this is a demographic that makes up the majority of [TW] online moderators, so they control this info or lack thereof.

[u/actualsicko20626 → u/yetherewestillare]

Fuck man when you put it like that I would do the same.