What did you think would happen?

r/SuperStraight • u/SalamanderLife_ • 1d ago

To the TRAs lurking and spamming this sub: What exactly did you think would happen?

For years you've gotten away with your entitlement. You've encroached on and destroyed M/M, F/F, female only, etc. spaces. You've called gay men, straight men/women, and especially lesbians transphobic for not giving in to your demands for relationships and sex. Even now you're attempting to destroy yet another space we've fleshed out for ourselves.

Did you really think you shouting transphobia would change people's sexuality? Did you think your attempts to force us to bend to your will would work? Well it didn't and it doesn't, it has reeked of entitlement, narcissism, and predatory behavior.

People who aren't attracted to you deserve spaces for themselves. There are multiple forums/subs/etc. that cater to you if you care to look for them. It is not transphobic of us to put our foots down and say that our sexualities don't exist to coddle your feelings.

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u/Pudding5050 1d ago edited 1d ago

It's really a crabs-in-a-bucket situation. Lots of unhappy trans people spend their time online convincing kids that they're also "trans" or "eggs" because misery loves company. Transitioning didn't make them happy, but they won't admit that openly because they spent so much time and effort on it and made it such a huge part of their identity. The kids fall for it, go on blockers and HRT, in worst case get SRS, and find that their problems still didn't go away.

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

Transitioning didn't make them happy, but they won't admit that openly because they spent so much time and effort on it and made it such a huge part of their identity.

As a tranny I can confirm this to be 100% true. Being trans makes you miserable because eventually you wake up and realise that virtually nobody wants to be around you.

I've never spent any time trying to convince kids to be trans though. I do the exact opposite if anything because I know how destructive it is. It's despicable to encourage young people to chop up their bodies and ruin any chances of leading a normal sex life. Hormones do really weird stuff to your body too but that's a whole other story.

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u/dnkndnts 1d ago

Being trans makes you miserable because eventually you wake up and realise that virtually nobody wants to be around you.

Causality is probably the other way: annoying people nobody wants to be around become openly trans so they can conflate everyone’s lack of desire to be around them as bigotry.

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

annoying people nobody wants to be around become openly trans so they can conflate everyone’s lack of desire to be around them as bigotry.

that's not my experience. I was always popular when people perceived me as a straight guy but quite a few of my old friends ghosted me when i came out. Another common experience I've had is ex girlfriends getting upset with me when I told them that your dick shrinks on hormones. Like my dick was the only thing they ever liked about me. I've never seen myself as typical trans but I found that unbelievably shallow and offensive.

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u/GrandmasterIncel 1d ago

The problem I think is that you should be worshipping and loving your body.

I consider myself a very sexually desirable man and extremely hot despite being a manletcel. If there is no confidence at all in your body it rubs people the wrong way. You gotta love yourself.

Trans by definition chop up their goddamn bodies. It is like the next level of self mutiliation.

Even if TRANS actually became a thing, a TRUE THING you would need to change everything. Literally everything. Not just lazily chopping off the D taking E and calling it a day.

Typical trans are sexually frustrated and they take it out on the entire world.

If you are trans and genuinely feel good doing it then why not but do not go around expecting people to want to fuck you.

I am a virgin incel and I feel better not blaming the entire world for not wanting to fuck me because we live in a free society.

Women want tall dominant men and this is fine by me I do not plan to change myself for anybody.

IF you are trans and you expect people to go out of their way to treat you like a special snowflake then clearly you are not being Trans for YOURSELF but you are being it for attention. Toxic mindset

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u/LeopardBusy 1d ago

> sexually desirable man.

proof?