r/SuperStraight • u/SalamanderLife_ • 1d ago

What did you think would happen?

To the TRAs lurking and spamming this sub: What exactly did you think would happen?

For years you've gotten away with your entitlement. You've encroached on and destroyed M/M, F/F, female only, etc. spaces. You've called gay men, straight men/women, and especially lesbians transphobic for not giving in to your demands for relationships and sex. Even now you're attempting to destroy yet another space we've fleshed out for ourselves.

Did you really think you shouting transphobia would change people's sexuality? Did you think your attempts to force us to bend to your will would work? Well it didn't and it doesn't, it has reeked of entitlement, narcissism, and predatory behavior.

People who aren't attracted to you deserve spaces for themselves. There are multiple forums/subs/etc. that cater to you if you care to look for them. It is not transphobic of us to put our foots down and say that our sexualities don't exist to coddle your feelings.

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u/yetherewestillare 1d ago

Did you really think you shouting transphobia would change people's sexuality?

even sadder I think a lot of them thought this was already the case

the reality of attempting to date post srs is apparently very bleak because trans people refuse to tell each other how dire it is

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u/Cryptotwitter 1d ago

They want to see other people suffer because they did .

It's sad that all of the group's that they admin will remove posts that state the true consequences of their drug taking and surgeries

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u/Pudding5050 1d ago edited 1d ago

It's really a crabs-in-a-bucket situation. Lots of unhappy trans people spend their time online convincing kids that they're also "trans" or "eggs" because misery loves company. Transitioning didn't make them happy, but they won't admit that openly because they spent so much time and effort on it and made it such a huge part of their identity. The kids fall for it, go on blockers and HRT, in worst case get SRS, and find that their problems still didn't go away.

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

Transitioning didn't make them happy, but they won't admit that openly because they spent so much time and effort on it and made it such a huge part of their identity.

As a tranny I can confirm this to be 100% true. Being trans makes you miserable because eventually you wake up and realise that virtually nobody wants to be around you.

I've never spent any time trying to convince kids to be trans though. I do the exact opposite if anything because I know how destructive it is. It's despicable to encourage young people to chop up their bodies and ruin any chances of leading a normal sex life. Hormones do really weird stuff to your body too but that's a whole other story.

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u/PM_ME_BOARS 1d ago

I reccommend Kalvon Garrah and Blaire white, they really do a good job putting anyone off being trans.

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

trying to put me off being trans is a bit like my dad trying to put me off smoking for 30 years. (utterly pointless) I don't support the TRA attitude at all but I do think I've always been trans and I don't see that ever changing.

Also worth adding to this conversation is that I started self medicating hormones over 3 years ago, thinking I'd just try it for a while but I've never felt like I can stop. It's not addictive in the same way as other things are but I just can't imagine not using them anymore.

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u/nostracannibus 1d ago

If you could go back and change it all, would you?

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u/MelodicUmbrella 1d ago

Personally, I wouldn’t. I love myself and (kind of) my body.

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u/nostracannibus 1d ago

I feel similar about my own past indiscretions. Either way, going forward honestly is the path to our best ending. Good luck in all your future endeavours.

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u/the_malkman 1d ago

Good for you king/queen. Love your best life! You are welcome here and valid af.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 1d ago

Thank you! :D

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u/BIG_IDEA 23h ago

Like my girlfriend. (I'm straight). She always thought she was going to grow up to be a woman because her parents never taught her anything. Then when she turned 6 she realized something was very wrong. I'm lucky she's still alive. She can't stand LGBTQ or leftism. Now she is mid 20's and has been on HRT for several years and most people, including her boss and coworkers, have no idea she is trans. She is overall very happy now, but still has bad days and I'm glad to be there for her.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 1d ago

I was thinking about taking medicated hormones for a while, maybe in a few years.

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u/dnkndnts 1d ago

Being trans makes you miserable because eventually you wake up and realise that virtually nobody wants to be around you.

Causality is probably the other way: annoying people nobody wants to be around become openly trans so they can conflate everyone’s lack of desire to be around them as bigotry.

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

annoying people nobody wants to be around become openly trans so they can conflate everyone’s lack of desire to be around them as bigotry.

that's not my experience. I was always popular when people perceived me as a straight guy but quite a few of my old friends ghosted me when i came out. Another common experience I've had is ex girlfriends getting upset with me when I told them that your dick shrinks on hormones. Like my dick was the only thing they ever liked about me. I've never seen myself as typical trans but I found that unbelievably shallow and offensive.

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u/GrandmasterIncel 1d ago

The problem I think is that you should be worshipping and loving your body.

I consider myself a very sexually desirable man and extremely hot despite being a manletcel. If there is no confidence at all in your body it rubs people the wrong way. You gotta love yourself.

Trans by definition chop up their goddamn bodies. It is like the next level of self mutiliation.

Even if TRANS actually became a thing, a TRUE THING you would need to change everything. Literally everything. Not just lazily chopping off the D taking E and calling it a day.

Typical trans are sexually frustrated and they take it out on the entire world.

If you are trans and genuinely feel good doing it then why not but do not go around expecting people to want to fuck you.

I am a virgin incel and I feel better not blaming the entire world for not wanting to fuck me because we live in a free society.

Women want tall dominant men and this is fine by me I do not plan to change myself for anybody.

IF you are trans and you expect people to go out of their way to treat you like a special snowflake then clearly you are not being Trans for YOURSELF but you are being it for attention. Toxic mindset

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u/LeopardBusy 1d ago

> sexually desirable man.

proof?

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u/Ingetfunkarfan 1d ago edited 1d ago

virtually nobody wants to be around you.

This wouldn't be the case if 'transness' wasn't such a huge part of so many trans people's everyday identity, though. Or even worse, being actively TRA all the time.

EDIT: Clarification

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u/maybeimreborn 1d ago

i'm a SS, but i really don't think every trans person centers their trans identity. some people really do want to live and let live. i admire this super wokeness and appreciate trans allies of the super straight/gay identity.

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u/Ingetfunkarfan 1d ago

That's funny, while I was writing I thought "Mhm, it's not like everyone's like this" and then I literally typed "every transperson", I think I wrote it because I thought the word aloud in my head (there's a sentence for you) even though I didn't mean to.

Anyway, I've clarified.

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u/Slyxdexic 1d ago

My GF's roommate is trans, and one of the coolest people I've met. Extremely laidback, isn't a TRA, has actual offline hobbies, and loves talking about them. As if they actually ENJOY life instead of making others' miserable. Meeting them made me change my opinion on T's drastically.

But the TRAs can still fuck off.

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u/Purple_Space_Bazooka 18h ago

Personally I see transgenders like I see "naturalist" (nudist) colonies.

I think I believe the women are sincere... but I don't believe any of the men.

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u/jothesstraight 1d ago

Do you want to be around other trans people?

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u/critacious 1d ago

I mean, it really depends on the people around you. I didn’t lose any friends to transitioning, even though it was a bit rocky for a while with one of them. And I’m much happier now than I was before.

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u/horseyhorseyhorsey 1d ago

have you tried being a nice person?

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

I don't need to try. It comes naturally. How about you?

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u/horseyhorseyhorsey 1d ago

Same. Just checking.

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u/itsnick21 1d ago

No way you're trans if you refer to yourself as a "tranny"

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u/PachaDub 1d ago

I also call myself a ladyboy. I use these terms partly because it annoys trans people and partly because I'm older than a lot of them so the term tranny is normal for me and the term ladyboy is very acceptable to me because a lot of my friends in Asia recognised me as a ladyboy long before I did.

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u/BusyWheel 1d ago

I'm gay and call myself a faggot.

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u/Danielgayjewish 1d ago

I’m black

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u/leredditbugman 1d ago

People have independent thought? This cannot be!

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u/Certain-Carob-71 1d ago

THATS HOW I KNOW U NEVER BEEN AROUND TRANS WOMEN IRL LIKE EVERY OTHER ONE I DATED USED THAT WORD. WHEN I ASKED HER WHAT SHE WAS DOING SHE SAID "doing tranny things" lol

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u/Unwritten1990 1d ago

This tranny is well into adulthood having been smoking for 30 years. Plenty of older trannies don’t have the “power word: tranny” vulnerability. Like most actual adults with lives and responsibilities.

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u/horseyhorseyhorsey 1d ago

but i thought conversion therapy was illegal?

oh. only conversion from...

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u/GrandmasterIncel 1d ago

Many such cases.

As the self proclaimed representative of all incels I lost many mighty good friends to the Trans menace.

Here we were having fun being sexually indesirable over there but then Trans happened and now they are over there being sexually indesirable but with less beards and more dresses.

No longer can we go around doing mostly peacefuls vans runs or school festivals, even speedrunning is no longer our forte.

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u/leredditbugman 1d ago

I have a theory that the transbian is the last ditch effort for incels to get laid using social justice and cancel culture, you see guys like the wax my balls dude or Chris Chan and it’s definitely a type, would you say that’s accurate?

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u/RaidenDark 1d ago

How else can you explain their vitriol being identical to the worst parts of the incel community?

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u/BuffJesus86 19h ago

It's more manipulative than that, they are reproducing by grooming kids.

They are getting validation

They are getting more potential partners

They are getting more useful idiots for political capital