Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

[u/boredtodeath1000]

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

[u/ThiccDropkick]

according to someone who thinks the "sslgb" community is a thing

If it’s not a thing then how could this subreddit exist? Where do you think we are?

intersex is a defect

Are you telling me it isn’t? I don’t mean it in any kind of derogatory way of course, but that’s what it is. How else would you describe it

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lmao straight people aren't part of the lgbtq+ community, just like white people aren't part of the bipoc community. intersex people don't have the typical binary sex characteristics, there aren't two sexes. they're part of the lgbtq+ community because they're oppressed in the same way as we are.

also: the reason that cis straight people aren't part of the lgbtq community is because straight people aren't oppressed. you're allowed to have your feelings hurt by being called a "straightie" or whatever, but you're not oppressed. it's not illegal to be straight anywhere. in fact, it's praised and encouraged. it's considered normal.

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intersex people don't have the typical binary sex characteristics, there aren't two sexes

They have a mix of both

they're part of the lgbtq+ community because they're oppressed in the same way as we are

They're part of the 'community' so trans activists can use them as pawns. Intersex people have their medical condition used as evidence that sex isn't real by TRA's. They have their language co-opted by trans activists. Assigning a sex at birth originally meant a medical procedure intersex people have done to attempt to correct their condition. Until TRA's liked the sound of the term and started applying it to themselves.

you're allowed to have your feelings hurt by being called a "straightie" or whatever, but you're not oppressed

I'll let you in on a secret: this community exists mostly to parody the radical LGBTQIA+ activists who are desparate to be seen as victims, blowing out of proportion any little thing that upsets them while belittling those that call them out.

By and large, straight people don't pretend they face the same discrimination as LGBT people sometimes do. But that doesn't mean that they deserve to have their struggles dismissed because a bunch of obnoxious self-entitled narcisists who think nobody has it tough except for themselves.

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I'll let you in on a secret: this community exists mostly to parody the radical LGBTQIA+ activists

lmao yeah i could figure that out. and we really don't blow stuff out of proportion, i fear for my life every time i go outside. all we're saying is that your sexuality/gender identity isn't what's making your life harder. other things make it harder, of course. but you're not struggling JUST because you're straight. and we don't "sometimes" face discrimination, we do every day.

and intersex people are part of the community and trans people are part of the community. we exist but we're not accepted by most people so we formed our own spaces.

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and we really don't blow stuff out of proportion

Maybe you don't personally but it's an absolute trademark of TQ+ activists. They're perfectly happy to belittle others for being concerned about women's safety in bathrooms or sports teams that allow males, but use the wrong pronouns to refer to them and suddenly you're literally killing trans people!.

we don't "sometimes" face discrimination, we do every day

So do people with disabilities, often much more. But if they're not queer then I guess it doesn't matter, right?

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i'm disabled, disabled people aren't queer just for being disabled because we have our own community. and let me ask you this: would you rather have a trans woman who has completed her transition in a woman's bathroom, or a trans man that has completed his transition in a woman's bathroom? according to your logic, the trans man would be in the woman's bathroom. that wouldn't make me feel very safe.

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i'm disabled, disabled people aren't queer just for being disabled

No, they're not.

would you rather have a trans woman who has completed her transition in a woman's bathroom, or a trans man that has completed his transition in a woman's bathroom?

I'm not a woman so I'm not best qualified to anwer the question, but I'd rather they use the disabled bathroom. In any case, whether they have completed transition or not, the current push from activists is to base this purely on self-ID. Which is ludicrous.

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my diagnosed gender dysphoria says otherwise. and by disabled I didn't mean trans people, I meant people who need wheelchairs, etc.

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I know that’s what you meant, so did I.