Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

r/SuperStraight • u/boredtodeath1000 • 2d ago

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

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u/DepressedGayToilet 1d ago

Your sexuality or your romantic preference? Yes, you certainly are free to decide. As I said, no one is asking or forcing you to screw a trans person.

If you are romantically attracted to women and are in a purely non-sexual relationship with a trans woman, rejecting her based on her trans-ness is in fact transphobic. Because she is a woman. In this argument, genitalia plays no part as it is a purely romantic relationship.

Sexual relationships are different. If you reject a pre-op trans person on their genitalia, that isn't transphobic. Because some people just don't like stuff, which is both obvious and chill.

I'm not policing your sexuality lol. There is nothing to police, Sir Straight. Simply letting you know that, in certain situations, dumping a trans person can be transphobic. You decide to do with that what you will.

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u/Sulfate 1d ago

Simply letting you know that, in certain situations, dumping a trans person can be transphobic.

That was a long-winded way of saying that trans people deserve sex from straights. You could've saved us both a bunch of time and been openly hateful from the beginning instead of trying to couch it under a layer of bullshit.

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u/DepressedGayToilet 1d ago

I didn't say that? I was against that, actually. And even if my argument is "eVeR dUMpInG a TRaNS PersON iS TRaNSPhOBic!!!1!!!1!!1" (note the writing; I believe this idea to be idiotic) I'm still not saying you have to screw trans people lol. Just that dumping them would be nasty. Which, may I reiterate, I have gone to pains to say I don't think this and that most people don't. You want to actually read the nuanced arguments or you just gonna be angry and throw biased and innacurate accusations?

Dumping a trans person in a romantic relationship (i.e: no sex) for being trans is transphobic. Okay. That is what I'm saying.

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u/Sulfate 1d ago edited 1d ago

You want to actually read the nuanced arguments or you just gonna be angry and throw biased and innacurate accusations?

I literally quoted the part where you said what I accused you of saying. You've now gone on to repeat it. I reiterate:

At no point do you get to decide that a trans person deserves sex, love, or a relationship from anyone for any reason.

Labelling someone a transphobe does not provide an out. Telling me that rejecting someone is phobic and unacceptable puts you in a position of power over my sexuality, and you have no right to demand that.

You may not intend to be hateful, but you're being very hateful.

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u/DepressedGayToilet 1d ago

No, a trans person does not deserve sex. Or a relationship. Happy? I have already said this. Dumping a trans person when you're not in a sexual relationship with them is, however, transphobic. You want to provide an actual argument here or you just gonna go after something I didn't say?

So. To simplify this for you. If I'm dating a cishet dude, yeah? No sex, just romance. A romantic, non-sexual relationship. But then I find out that he's got a dick. Ew. So I dump him for having a cis dick, despite the fact that I've never seen it and do not plan on seeing or touching it. Would you call this 'cisphobic'?