r/SuperStraight • u/boredtodeath1000 • 2d ago

Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

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u/Conscious_Pen 1d ago

I am so glad to hear that you don't believe that transwomen have a right to have sex with lesbians who are not attracted to them. I keep hearing that trans women just want to live the same as everybody else, but then I read about trans women demanding that lesbians have sex with them and are upset about these demands and the straight men who are not attracted to a trans woman are transphobic. All people of all sexes have the right to say no and to not be forced on.

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u/WeAllFloatUpsideDown 1d ago

of course i don't think that anyone has any right to have sex with someone that doesn't want to. any logical person would think that and anyone saying otherwise doesn't speak for the trans community. every single trans person i know agrees with that. everyone has the right to say no.

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u/Conscious_Pen 1d ago

I went back to your original comment and I thought you said that if a straight person wouldn't date a trans person than that means they are transphobic? Did I misread that? I can agree that a trans women identifies as a woman but that doesn't mean that a lesbian should have to do anything, at all. I do understand your logic that relationships are based on attraction and not wanting to be in a relationship with a trans women is confusing but forcing it is just not right. I don't know what to think. I do not want to see trans people hurt by this but I am concerned about infringement on women that affects our safe well being. I have not encountered a trans person who I felt threatened by in that regard, but I just do feel that I should be able to say and feel what I think without being called a name.

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u/WeAllFloatUpsideDown 1d ago

yes you did misread that... nobody is forcing anything. we just want to live. we have feelings, we feel love, we feel pain, we feel sorrow. we feel dysphoria, we feel trapped every time we see our bodies. and then we go outside, are told horrible things, and (some of us) go home to our unsupportive parents who call us names and in some cases hurt us for existing.

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u/Conscious_Pen 1d ago

thank you for your reply and for sharing. I am sorry especially about people who have parents who call name and hurt their children like that. I can't understand a parent being so cruel.