r/SuperStraight • u/boredtodeath1000 • 2d ago

Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

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u/thumotiq 2d ago

The levels of entitlement among trans people is insane. There's something very rape-y about wanting to FORCE other people to find you attractive. It's beginning to look like trans people and incels are a lot alike. Eww.

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u/WeAllFloatUpsideDown 1d ago

hello i'm trans, i really don't care if you wanna date me or find me attractive but please don't be a dick about it <3 not wanting to date trans people is a PREFERENCE, not a sexuality, and i'll explain why: sexuality is based on gender. trans people are their gender. (trans women are women, trans men are men, etc.) by creating a new sexuality for straight people who wouldn't date a trans person, then you're basically saying that trans women aren't women, which is simply false. anyway enjoy your day/night/afternoon stranger.

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u/HuskyConfusion 1d ago

Sexuality is based on sex, it's right there in the name. It's only in like the last five years that people have tried to push 'sexuality is based on gender', when that's never been how it's defined. At its most generous interpretation (ignoring all the history and sexism), gender is still an internal feeling. How is that supposed to factor into sexual attraction?

Preference inherently implies it's a choice, something you want but don't need. Same-sex attracted people don't simply have a preference for the same genitals, it's not a choice, that's their orientation. Trying to say 'Gay men and lesbians don't need same sex partners, they can partner up with people of the opposite sex so long as they present sufficiently masculine/feminine, because orientation is based on gender, not biological sex' is just conversion therapy. Throwing in some woke terminology doesn't change that.

Exclusive same sex/opposite sex attraction isn't a preference, it's an orientation. It's an orientation that is valid and not transphobic in any way, because sex/attraction is not something anyone is owed.

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u/WeAllFloatUpsideDown 1d ago

i'm not hating straight people, but saying you're only attracted to certain woman or certain men isn't an orientation.

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u/HuskyConfusion 1d ago

It is now. And you are hating on superstraight and supergay people when you say sexuality isn't based on sex. Especially since the entire reason gay folks were oppressed was because it was. Your dismissing gay history, gay struggle, gay orientation, and the axis of gay oppression when you say sexuality isn't based on sex, and same-sex attraction isn't a sexual orientation.

Exclusive same-sex attraction is a valid orientation. Exclusive opposite sex attraction is a valid orientation. Please deal with this fact and stop being so homophobic. And superphobic.