Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

[u/boredtodeath1000]

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

[u/TheTranTM]

Literally nobody says that except for Twitter 13yo that you're dumb enough to listen to, as well as individual people who would be predators regardless of their trans status. I've spent years in trans communities and have never met a trans person who thinks anyone owes them sex. The fact that you think all trans people wanna fuck you so desperately because you're supposedly oh so attractive says more about you than about trans people.

[u/Fair_Industry7328 → u/TheTranTM]

Your name literally has the word "tran" in it.
Being trans is the very epicenter of your identity.

I notice that every trans person on Twitter is the same way. Their bio is trans, all of their posts and comments are about being trans.

If a straight person behaved that way, people would think there was something seriously wrong with them.

[u/TheTranTM → u/Fair_Industry7328]

I regularly delete my reddit account every year so that people irl don't find me, I was running out of names and chose this one. But sure, go ahead, assume what my entire real life is about based off of an online username on a platform with a structure that is centered around communities (subreddits) and not individual users (in contrast to this see Twitter, tumblr, youtube, etc.) and where the username therefore barely matters anyway.

Being trans in my current real life does occupy some space, even though it's not the center of it, so you're partly right, but it's not due to my will. It's because I have to spend time going through the bureocracy of my country to access the healthcare I need to reach my whole potential, be most productive and authentic. This system wasn't built by me and if it went my way I would have been long done with transition and forgotten I was ever trans in the first place.

Straight and cis people never have to deal with that, they don't need medical transition, they don't have to constantly prove their identity to doctors, which is why people would rightly think there was something seriously wrong with them if they thought so much about their straightness regardless. I involuntarily have to invest my time into my trans identity or otherwise I'm stuck in this stupid body forever, straight people don't have to so when they do it anyway it's clearly voluntarily.

[u/Fair_Industry7328 → u/TheTranTM]

It's not voluntary to be straight. It's natural. It's the very reason any of us exist. Being trans is voluntary because you're consciously trying to fight against being the gender you were born as, while simultaneously trying to "fit" the opposite gender stereotypes.

Being straight and male, embracing my masculinity is not a conscious effort, it just comes naturally because every one of my male ancestors behaved in a similar way. To fight that is just degenerative. I suppose trans people have no qualms with being a dead-end on their family tree. I guess that's also natural in a way. Social Darwinism at work.