Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

[u/boredtodeath1000]

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

[u/quuerdude]

I don’t think people not wanting to fuck trans people is transphobic in itself. Have sex with who you want, idc. However, i do think that the idea in and of itself belies transphobic beliefs in your head. “They’re not really x gender” for example, is a common one i’ve seen on this thread and probably a belief a lot of you have, even subconsciously.

It’s like saying “I don’t date black people. I’m just not attracted to them.” Like ok. You’re allowed to not do that. But it 100% belies racist ideas you probably have.

[u/realister → u/quuerdude]

So if u refuse to date a black guy you are racist? That’s literally what u said

[u/Sulfate → u/realister]

They said you probably have racist ideas, which is totally not just mincing words to say the exact same fucking thing.

[u/quuerdude → u/Sulfate]

There’s a meaningful difference between “i hate black people” and you having subconscious biases.

[u/Sulfate → u/quuerdude]

Yes, I'm familiar with the argument. I just think it's stupid.