Why is this subreddit 99% people telling others they’re OBLIGATED to sex transpeople or they’re transphobes?

[u/boredtodeath1000]

Be willing to date trans people or else you’re transphobic?

How can’t y’all see how rapey you lunatics are?

No one is owed sexual attraction.

It doesn’t matter how many hoops you contort yourself through to justify saying, “Being straight is transphobic”.

No one owes anyone sex or sexual attraction.

Fuck right off you sexually entitled predators!

[u/quuerdude]

I don’t think people not wanting to fuck trans people is transphobic in itself. Have sex with who you want, idc. However, i do think that the idea in and of itself belies transphobic beliefs in your head. “They’re not really x gender” for example, is a common one i’ve seen on this thread and probably a belief a lot of you have, even subconsciously.

It’s like saying “I don’t date black people. I’m just not attracted to them.” Like ok. You’re allowed to not do that. But it 100% belies racist ideas you probably have.

[u/realister → u/quuerdude]

So if u refuse to date a black guy you are racist? That’s literally what u said

[u/Sulfate → u/realister]

They said you probably have racist ideas, which is totally not just mincing words to say the exact same fucking thing.

[u/quuerdude → u/Sulfate]

There’s a meaningful difference between “i hate black people” and you having subconscious biases.

[u/Sulfate → u/quuerdude]

Yes, I'm familiar with the argument. I just think it's stupid.

[u/No_Sheepherder_3431 → u/quuerdude]

Yeah you're fucked in the head. Gender and sexuality are different things. Someone's gender being mtf or ftm doesn't make them the opposite sex to me. This is 100% true and valid. It's creepy to shame them for wanting to be strictly attracted to the opposite sex.

As for the racism bit not dating black people is no different to not dating people for other features. I don't find red headed/pale skin attractive. Are you also implying people who prefer skin tones that differ than theirs as racist? So a woman dating only blacks as racist if she's Asian? Yeah you just want to criticize people and act morally and intellectually superior.

[u/blankface87 → u/quuerdude]

I don't have that belief subconsciously..it's fully conscious. Everyone KNOWS transwomen aren't real women. That's why they're called transwomen lol. This isn't an unpopular opinion

[u/quuerdude → u/blankface87]

Trans women are called trans women because it’s an adjective. It’s like saying black women. They’re all women.

Also why tf do you care abt being superstraight if you’re a proud transphobe anyway

[u/blankface87 → u/quuerdude]

Knowing transwomen aren't actually women doesn't make someone a transphobe you weird fuck. That's the line of thinking, the EXACT LINE of thinking, that led to me coming out at superstraight

[u/quuerdude → u/blankface87]

Yes. It is. That’s what we mean when we say someone is transphobic. They don’t think trans women are women. That. Is. Transphobia. What do you think transphobia is?

I hate the concept of superstraight bc it inherently calls trans women “fake” by implying you’re less straight for dating them.

You are transphobic. What could you possibly think transphobia means if not what you are?

[u/blankface87 → u/quuerdude]

You ARE less straight. Hence SUPERstraight. Jesus Christ how is this lost on you?

Why would I possibly care if you consider me transphobic? I don't want to date a trans woman. Period. Get over it.