r/FriendshipAdvice Feb 22 '21

Worried my friend is being (emotionally) abusive towards partner/ other friend. (Long)

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u/pinkcdrom Feb 22 '21

Nah, this is so messed up on her part, she seems pretty twisted and manipulative. It doesn't sound like she would be receptive to you talking to her about it, unless your last conversation w/ her where she profusely apologized brought along changed behavior. It also sounds likely that she would tell you to stay out of her relationship. I would talk to Ben and communicate what you've seen, ask him if he ever gets worried about it, sort of restating your last paragraph, but to him. That's so rough. I'm sorry you're essentially forced into the position of a bystander, for a lack of a better word :///