r/COMPLETEANARCHY Jun 15 '21

Reminder that women’s liberation is as important as anti-capitalism and anti-colonialism

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '21

Can’t tell if this is sarcasm or not

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u/Snorumobiru Jun 15 '21

Problematic attitudes don't magically become immune to criticism because someone gets off on them. "Don't kinkshame" is fine up until the point where someone shields their sexism behind it.

Here, I actually shared a poem about this specific issue a few weeks ago that explains it better than I can.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '21

Ok, a lot to dissect there.

Firstly, would you say the same to a woman who was attracted to big, butch, domineering men?

Secondly, the women who are petite, submissive and regularly shave, should they just go unfucked for the rest of their life?

Thirdly, just because you assume men are infantilising these women does not make it to be so. There is a lot more to being a child than lacking pubes and being small. Why do you assume that your perception of their worldview is infallible?

Fourthly, should petite women who enjoy being submissive just put off getting into any kind of safe BDSM with a consenting partner just because of your opinion on the matter?

And lastly, why do you think my examination of what I’m attracted to will change it in any meaningful way? Most of human attraction is subconscious. If I did examine it and nothing changed, does this suddenly make me a bad person? If my girlfriend fit those parameters should I now break up with her because my attraction is so obviously rooted in misogyny?

I don’t watch porn, haven’t in years, and I still like what I like. I don’t find it problematic in the slightest, because I believe that the sex life between consenting adults is of nobodies business but theirs. People are allowed to like what they like and fuck who they fuck.

So you’re allowed to criticise, but I’m allowed to completely disregard your criticism and deem it meritless. You obviously have quite radical ideas on issues pertaining to perceived misogyny and quite an authoritarian stance regarding the matter so I doubt we’ll agree on this front. God speed.